Some things don't get better by talking about them more.
You've told the story. Maybe more than once, to more than one person. You understand what happened, you can explain why it affected you, and none of that has changed how your body reacts when something reminds you of it — the tightening in your chest, the sleep that won't come, the reaction that arrives before you've decided to have it.
That gap is the point. Insight lives in one part of the brain. The alarm lives somewhere else, and it never got the memo that the thing is over.
EMDR works on the second part. Rather than talking through a memory again, we use bilateral stimulation — eye movements, tones, or taps — while you hold the experience in mind, which lets the brain finish processing something it got stuck on. The memory stays. What changes is the charge it carries.
What EMDR looks like here:
Every clinician at The Longwood Counseling Center is trained in EMDR. We use it with single-incident trauma — an accident, an assault, a loss — and with the harder-to-name kind: growing up managing someone else's moods, years of feeling unsafe in a way you can't point to, the thing you've never called trauma because other people had it worse.
You will not be walked into the worst thing that ever happened to you on day one. Most of the work upfront is preparation — building the capacity to stay regulated while something difficult is in the room. We only move into processing when that's steady, and you set the pace throughout.
EMDR is often faster than talk therapy for trauma, but faster doesn't mean easier. It's a real process, and we'd rather it be a solid one.
What it costs:
We're a private-pay practice, but we do not charge more for EMDR. It is included with your care.
Ready when you are:
If you've done the talking and it hasn't moved, EMDR may be the thing that does.
New here? Read more about Meet The Counselors. If anxiety is how the trauma shows up day to day, our Anxiety Therapy page covers that side of things.